Do you men really know what you want? Like seriously, I’m tired of the games and the pretence. Why can’t everyone be honest with each other? If you’re not out to be serious with us just fucking say so. Don’t make me fall head over heels in love with you and make me make an effort for you, if all you want to do is play the field. I wouldn’t be writing this if some guys hadn’t just said it in the beginning. And men if you do get caught spare us the drama and the “it’s not what it looks like” and just admit it, instead of trying to avoid the issue and also putting us on a guilt trip. If it’s nothing serious and you just want a fling don’t get our hopes up. It’s wrong, cruel and downright annoying. Lying to us, leading us on and actually making us your girlfriend for now is just messed up. Who knows maybe if you told the girl the truth in the first place she might just be looking for that as well. Now you have us getting all dolled up, giggling with our friends about how amazing you are and the inappropriate thoughts we have about you and all for what? Then I flipping have to catch you on the sly. Some of us are too grown and pissed off enough about some other guy who was before you to still continue playing these games. Don’t hate us when we start acting like cold hearted bitches because it’s guys like you who want to fuck with us and waste our time that make us this way. Can’t we all just grow up and be honest with each other.