What defines me might not define you. No two people are alike but we've all lived life and gone through the good and the bad. Im just trying to inject you with some of my shuga, the essence of me, my loves and loathes.
So Saturday nyt turned out to be the best night ever. It was my bestfriends birthday and we enjoyed a night out in Fourways at an uber cool restaraunt called Rodizio. The vibe was upbeat and amazing. The couple next to me were gazing into each others eyes and holdin hands as they fed each other like in the movies. There where truly madly in love funny thing is I was happy for them theres nothing more beautiful than people who are not afraid to show their love. (Note to self marry a white guy or a coconut at least). Enjoying shooters of liquid cocaine, not forgetin a drink that shares my name Chi Chi (match made in alcoholic heaven). The food was amazing all u can eat meat (great for me cos am not one to eat salads and say am satisfied). The salsa dancers where on fire plus we got to dance to the macarena lol. The night ended well with a Flaming lamborgini that really had me going crazy. It doesnt hurt to get a little high u only live once after all. It was a night to remember and the memories are forever cherished. Hope I made her day special. Love u bestie. mwaah
It amazes me how stupid us girls are. When a guy walks up to you and tells you the most idiotic stuff or even insults you, you end up falling for him. To make things worse even when you know his no good for you, you stupid enough to believe he actually loves you. To top it off when he cheats we forgive him but we know if the tables were turned we would be dumped right on the spot. After waiting for hours for him to show up, he ditches you and you still stupid enough to call him and apologise for his mistakes. Girls are just plain stupid in my opinion, we fall for the same lines and worst of all guys know this and they use it to their advantage all the time. We put the E in easy. I have been reading the Man Diet by Zoe Strimpel so if we going to get rid of our stupidity I would advise everyone to read it. With rules like do not pursue, no facebook stalking, limiting booze intake which makes us fall deeper into these men's stupid lines plus no strings attached sex and many others. We all want to gain some self worth and be less stupid. so go on you have everything to gain. (Brains perhaps).
So most of us have been there, lusting over someone and at times hoping that if you have sex it will turn into more. So he is the sweetest guy, handsome, the type you really want to take home but then we forget mum's advice that if we let him eat the cake easily he wont stick around. We shut that advice at the back of our heads and give it up for him. Only for you to wake up and his gone or he stops calling as much. Then you hear her voice again ' I told you so' or worse when his done despite the great sex you feel sad and alone instead of empowered. There is no simple way to say it ladies but lets start saying no to one night stands and no strings attached sex or instant sex. You really do not want to be in the pit of post orgasmic regret now thats not a place I would want to be in. Take a stand and respect yourself. If his worth it he will wait.
So foreplay is just not about the ladies after all. Guys may not always admit this but men love it when a woman drives him wild with want before he gets his cake. He will love you for it and it will leave him begging you for more. A friend of mine mentioned that "it also gives him hints about your sexuality and then he knows whether or not he wants more or not". Kisses here and there. Show some skin before actually getting naked. Plus once you tease him its a quick way to turn him on and heightens their need to pounce. My dear friend T had this to say, " Well as for me its a two way thing. If I am really horny and have not screwed in a while I really just want to get it in and then after that if we can tease. But if I am not that thirsty I really want to take time to cuddle, kiss and yeah get teased." All I can say is once you done teasing your man they will be a massive explosion.