Women on a rise

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It's official women all over are making their mark and some are even the breadwinners in their families, professionals and educated. There is nothing stopping women of today from climbing the corporate ladder, making a success of themselves or even becoming Presidents. I am proud to live in a time were women can voice their opinions and express themselves fully. Some men will still have a woman who is beneath them than above him because of his status and ego. Real men however appreciate a woman whether she is ambitious and intelligent. There is no point having a bimbo woman on your side just because you are compensating for your lack thereof in terms of finances, intelligence and stability. Well some men have embraced it and others have not but hey it still aint stopping us go getter women.

His just not that into you

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There has never been a more dull moment than the deep moments of when you on ecstasy and the high fades away. Life leads you down different paths each day and sometimes you do not expect to feel certain ways for people, but you know that is what love does, it captivatesyou and takes your whole heart hostage. You keep pushing for something but love doesnt grow within his heart. So you have to live with being content that it will never happen and you have to find it in your heart to move on. The light bulb moment is when you realise his the man you love who does not want you. You have to focus on something else to keep your mind of your addiction. Life does not always have a fairytale ending and they say it gets better with time but sometimes it doesn't, you just get better at hiding it.

Embracing the ass curve

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"A figure with curves always offers a lot of interesting angles" -(Wesley Ruggles). Being Bootylicious is so hot right now thanks to Beyonce, Nickki Minaj, Kim Kardashian and JLo. Gone are the days when size 0 was everything. Being curvy and having meat also equates to sexy now and those in the entertainment industry are making it known to others. I love my body because it defines who I am. Like there is no reason to be ashamed that your ass is packing. I find pride in being bootylicious despite my small frame. It is a piece of my pride in being a woman plus it will always be a part of me and there is no point trying to hide. Plus the bonus point about my bonus feature is that the guys love it too. I choose to embrace the ass curve.

Smashing in Fashion

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Spring is here and its time to let loose and express ourselves in our summer dresses, micro minis and short shorts. Make a statement with your style without saying a word. Feel like the red carpet follows you wherever you go and make the pavements your catwalk. To get the right attention one should note that bright eye make up is on trend,neon nail polish is a must have as a finishing touch to any outfit. High waist micro minis, the colorful pencil skirt aned crop tops have been making waves in South Africa at the moment. One should not forget that colour blocking is a huge hit so colour block everything from shoes, clothes and jewellary. Remember if you've got it flaunt it.

Loving

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Sometimes I wonder how you can love someone nomatter how many times they hurt or disappoint you, love still prevails. The ache in your core makes you want to say yes to them all the time, you give in completely and you start doing things for them that will make them smile even if they never ask for it, you remember things that interest them that never mattered to you at all. That's when you realise that his the one for you whether he knows it or not. Rhianna recently admitted that Chris Brown is still the love of her life and this reminds me that one should never leave if they are still willing to try and that it takes a lifetime to forget someone. So if your heart is pointing you in that direction don't fight it because there is a reason why that person is in your life right now. Love whole heartedly.

Khanyi Mbau Revealed



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Khanyi Mbau was once one of the most photographed and talked about woman in Mzansi. She is back in the media again with her new biography “Bitch Please I’m Khanyi Mbau. Others have found this title too out there but I would like to think it is what it is. In this book she airs out her dirty laundry as she tries to clean up her image. Written by Lesley Mofokeng a journalist and under the guidance of Khanyi her scandals come to the fore and the lessons she has learnt are revealed to all. I had missed Khanyi Mbau’s antics so am glad the book is out so I can get a slice of the cake too. The Queen of Bling always knows how to make her mark and this book sure has stirred up a lot of controversy. She talks of her insecurities when she was Mandla’s wife, why the White wedding never happened and how he abused her during her pregnancy and after and her fears come out and the truth behind all the bling. This read is sure to teach readers something as well ‘what you see isn’t always what it seems’ and it sought of made me feel sorry for her.

Are you a shagger?

How often do you think about sex, let alone engage in it with a lover, friend, husband or wife? Some people are afraid to admit that they like it or even love sex, others enjoy doing it as often as possible but being labelled a shagger stops them from embracing who they trully are. I believe that if it's in you let it out because life is too short to keep quiet when you are bored and not getting what you want. If it means grabbing your partner and doing all the freaky shit you have in mind do it. Am sure your patner will thank you for it. There is nothing more gratifying than knowing that both you and your patner are oepn to all things that enhance your sex life. Plus it's way better when you are into it than when you not. If you thought blondes had more fun you were wrong, shaggers have more, even multiple the fun and it has added benefits if you keep it safe and in a monogamous relationship.