What defines me might not define you. No two people are alike but we've all lived life and gone through the good and the bad. Im just trying to inject you with some of my shuga, the essence of me, my loves and loathes.
Monday, 5 March 2012
Does the way you dress define who you are??? Does it really?
I have often been judged for the way I have dressed and still do at times. I remember being in primary school and all the girls would oh and ahh plus say things like "how could she wear that?" They always assumed I did it to get the boys attention but to be honest I did it for me. It made me feel good and contributed to the confidence I have now. I can pull off any outfit nomatter how revealing. I have always been confident in my own skin and back then I didn't even have boobs but the girls still had to hate. This carried on all the way into high school and I still didn't care because I felt good about me and if they did not like it well I did not like them either. It just goes to show how messed up people with their own insecurities are. I remember them being all bitchy saying things like " she won't make it in that outfit someone is going to make her pregnant." But look at where I am now. I am a third year varsity student whose getting ready to take on the real world. People need to realise it is not always what you see is what you get. Most of those girls I learnt with and said hurtful things are the ones that ended up pregnant. So much for wearing a long skirt ha! Don't get me wrong though I am not saying I am better than them but all I am saying is am a good example of does the way you dress define who you are? It sure as hell does not and am still gonna rock my daisy duke shorts and micro minis and find my way to graduation.